Is Your Prayer Life "Odd"?

 

   
When was the last time you prayed—not because you needed something immediately, but simply because it was the most important thing you could do that day? When was the last time you prayed not to receive something from God, but to simply worship the God who can supply all your needs?
 

    For many of us, prayer is a "break glass in case of emergency" tool. We know it’s a good idea, and we often promise to do it for others, but in our hectic, busy schedules, those prayers frequently get lost in the cracks of our busy lives. 

    Interestingly, while prayer meetings are often the least-attended services in American churches, the same is not true globally. In countries where Christians face fierce persecution, prayer is not an optional extra; it is the absolute foundation of the church.

    According to a 2021 Barna Group report, while 65% of Americans say they pray at least once a week, only 26% say they prioritize prayer as a communal or foundational activity in their daily lives. We treat prayer like a luxury, but the Bible treats it like a vital necessity.

The Letter Birthed in Prayer

    The Apostle Paul’s letter to the Colossians actually began as a prayer request. Their pastor, Epaphras, traveled all the way to a Roman prison to ask Paul for advice on the problems his church was facing. Paul’s first response wasn't to write a clever strategy; it was to labor in prayer. This entire letter was birthed out of a season of deep intercession.

"Continue earnestly in prayer, being vigilant in it with thanksgiving; meanwhile praying also for us, that God would open to us a door for the word, to speak the mystery of Christ, for which I am also in chains, that I may make it manifest, as I ought to speak."- Colossians 4:2-4 

Understanding the Call

Paul’s "post-script" to this letter provides a masterclass on how to cultivate a prayer life that actually changes things. He isn't just giving "lip service" to a nice idea; he is describing a spiritual engine.

Paul outlines five ways we should engage in this vital exercise:

  • Pray Continually: Don’t stop. Pray when you are anxious, pray when you are on top of the world, and pray for every decision, no matter how minor it seems. There is not one situation that does not need prayer. There is not one moment in your life that you can't go to the Lord in prayer. 

  • Pray Watchfully: Paul tells us to "watch" in prayer. This means praying with the expectation that God will actually answer, and then keeping our eyes open to see how He does it. So often we pray with out actually believing that God will answer our prayers. We need to pray and immediately look to receive the very things that we are asking God for. 

  • Pray Contently: Our prayers should be seasoned with thanksgiving. We should not go to God always requesting things from Him, yet never thanking Him for the things He has already provided. We must be grateful for what we have even as we ask for more. Our prayers can sound like the rants of spoiled child, when we go to God in prayer with a ungrateful heart. In fact our own ungrateful attitude maybe the very hindrance to our prayers being answered. If we will go to the Lord in prayer and begin thanking Him for what He has already given us, we may find that what we thought we needed has already been provided for.

  • Pray Collectively: There is unique power when God’s people pray together. Historically, great revival—were not fueled by programs, but by small groups of people meeting specifically to pray. Their is power when one person goes to the Lord in prayer, but that power is only magnified when we gather together to seek the Lord as a group. 

  • Pray Evangelistically: While praying for health and finances is okay, Paul’s supreme focus was praying for the Gospel to be proclaimed. Our greatest desire should be for others to know Jesus Christ and be saved from their sins. So the one thing that should weigh most heavily on our hearts is the lostness of mankind. We need to pray that we might have an opportunity to share the gospel. We need to pray that God would prepare the hearts of people who have yet to be saved. We need to pray that Holy Spirit would move in a person's heart that they may see their urgent need for salvation. 

Why Your Prayers Matter

    The work of saving souls and changing lives is not a mental or physical work—it is a spiritual work that requires the power of the Holy Spirit. We cannot save a single soul on our own; therefore, our work must be "bathed in much prayer".

Moving Forward

    Jesus said, "My house shall be a house of prayer". He didn't say a house of programs or a house of social gatherings, though those things have their place. He prioritized the direct line to the Father.

    If your life feels out of sync or your church feels powerless, go back to the foundational advice Paul gave Epaphras: Pray. Don't just skim past the words. Set aside the busy schedule for a moment and talk to the One who actually holds all the answers.

What is one "impossible" situation in your life right now that you have been trying to fix with effort instead of bathing it in prayer?

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